Lingerie Secrets

Erotic Halloween Party for Fun and Romance

2007-10-22T08:04:00.000-04:00

Erotic Halloween Party for Fun and Romance

October is a great month for fun and romance. What a perfect time
to break the ole' boring routine our intimacy gets stuck
in... and do something exciting and different for your love life.

Plan a surprise Halloween party for your lover in the privacy
of your bedroom. No interruptions allowed though...get a sitter
lined up for a night Spooktacular romance. Then, allow yourself to
spend an entire night trick or treating in your private domain.

What an exciting way to add new adventure and variety to your love
life, not to mention, surprises your spouse and have a night of
breathtaking thrills, chills, and goosebumps. A romantic Halloween
party, is an excellent way to break the barriers of a stale and
predictable love life.

So, get inside yourself and find that prankster gangster and plot
your Halloween bash. As the weather moves in to Fall, this is one
way to start warming the house for Winter temperature ahead.

It's time to light the pilot in your marriage or relationship and set the
thermostat for new warmth in your martial intimacy. No since
staying stuck in a chilled bed night after night when it can
otherwise be different with a little work and imagination.

A surprise Halloween party is your time for a night of intimate
tricking and treating...not to mention, an opportunity to SCARE
THE PANTS OFF EACH OTHER.

Furthermore, such an exiting bash is a perfect opportunity to
explore or introduce intimacy products such as warming lubes,
warming massage oils, edible powders, lotions and potions to your
love life. Complimentary lotions and potions certainly can
heighten pleasure and arouse desires that may be fizzled out.

Since Halloween is a time of pumpkins and spice, it is time
to capitalize upon both of these elements. Decorating for romance
and adding some Spice can be a new addition to your marital
romance.

Getting spark back into your relationship is about treating
your lover to new and different experiences than where the two
have been and where the two of may remain.

Capitalize upon this holiday and use it to your benefits.
Allow your mind to be creative, daring, and adventurous as you plan
your night of Spooktacular fun....break those chains that bind your
adventurous side. Take the first step to enhance your romance if
the two of you are stuck, feeling bored, too tired, or experiencing
loss of excitement and desire for each other.

Do something you may have never done before, such as, buy an Adult
Costume or Novelty Underwear for yourself and your spouse. Then,
decorate your bedroom and bed to compliment your costumes.

Remember, the ideas is to set the mood by the costume and the decor.
If you envision slow and passionate romance, you might be the
naughty nurse for the night. Be sure and have all the medicine
potions to properly care for your patient though.

If you have reservations about shopping for an adult costume in
pubic, go over to www.mysecretslingerie.com and shop in
the privacy of your home. Or...if you absolutely are not a costume
kind of person...simply decorate your bedroom for romance. What a
great and different surprise your lover.

Think back for a moment when you were a child, remember the
exciting feelings you felt as you waited in line to go through a
haunted house. You grew excited to the unknown ahead. You heart
pounded with uncertainly. Allow your mate the opportunity to
feel and view your marital intimacy in a renewed positive and
exciting Spooktackular light.....

Then, take you lovers hand and lead him or her into a night of
tantalizing passion.

Halloween is getting close...so start planning the SURPRISE now. No
matter how old we get, a nice surprise is pleasantly welcomed.
Putting together an intimate Halloween party can be inexpensive and
take little time....so get started now...we just have a few days
left until the romantic event...

Again, set the mood...be the naughty nurse, or firefighter. Decorate
and don't forget the Ghoulish necessities...to thrill, chills,
and send your lovers nerve endings over the edge.
If you need a jump start...here are a couple of decorating ideas to
get your creative side stirred up....

Decorate your bed with a smalls strand of Halloween lights,
spider webs, and black rose petals.... but don't forget your
lover's favorite candy to tease, treat and explore their body with.
Add Spicy Pumpkin candles to add subtle aroma to the air and to
light the room romantically. Then, complete your potions with
warming massage oils, lubes and intimate toys for a Spooktober
exotic experience.

Don't let this Halloween get by...use it to your advantage and
treat your mate to a night of Ghoulish fun they won't forget.

If you need some additional romantic ideas, drop me an email. I
can let you in on some fantastic ideas. Email me at...
sherri@mysecretslingerie.com

Happy Erotic Halloween!
Sherri

Say I Love You with Roses on Valentines Day - Each Color's Meaning

2007-02-09T08:37:00.000-05:00

Happy Valentines to You!

I was setting here thinking about Valentine's Day and how this one holiday is especially important concerning love and romance. Of course rose's are the number one flower given on this special day and I understand 73% of the roses purchased on this holiday are by men.

What is especially important when purchasing roses is the meaning of each color. Each color has a significant meaning. Do you know what each color represents?

Just to help you out before the big day gets here, I will give you a run down of the different colors of roses and what each color represents.

Like me, once you understand the meaning of each color, you may purchase an entirely different color than you originally intended.

Just an idea....when signing your Valentine's Card you might Say....Red Roses for My Love...The Ultimate Symbol of Love and Passion I feel for you.

Let me give you a run down of each color and meaning...

Red - Love and Passion
Lilac - Love at First Sight
Coral - Desire and Passion
Red/White Mix - Harmonious Bonding
Pink - Gratitude, Happiness and Thanks
White - Innocence, but also I Miss You
Yellow - Friendship
White/Yellow Mix - Harmony

You see....roses are truly an expression of love, romance, or friendship. So, I think sending the appropriate color is important. Do you agree?

Of course chocolates and cards are also an expression of our love too, but rose's are the number one gift we give to express love. You might think about buying a special piece of lingerie for the one you love. A secrets and intimate lingerie gift is one spicy way to add romance to the day too....

Have Secrets of Love and Romance on Valentine's Day!

Talk to you soon,

Sherri
http://www.mysecretslingerie.com/

Winter Romance with Your Lover from My Secrets Lingerie

2007-01-16T05:51:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year to You!

Well, 2007 rang in fast and furious. Now here we are mid January and the weather is extremely frigid across the nation. I hope you are keeping warm and taking advantage of your time at home with your love during these winter storms. How is the weather in your part of the world? All I can say is mine is icyyyyyyyyyy and cold!

Gotta say...now is the best time to snuggle up under the covers with your mate and have some warm and cozy fun. Why miss the opportunity to heat up your relationship while your at home together anyway. It doesn't make since to waste time worrying about the weather or getting back to work. That will happen soon enough. Quickly all this ice and snow will melt away and you will be back hitting the grind stone and wishing you had a day off.

Wow, after Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years its quite awhile before we have another holiday off work. So...give yourself a break and enjoy your time together during these icy, snowie days at home. Don't let the winter ho-hum's get you down. Winter is a perfect time to rekindle and enhance our relationships with our lover. No better time then the present. You know the 'ole saying...why put off till tomorrow...what you can do today!

I have to tell you...the best way to get your romance flaming during these cold winter days is add some Steamy Lingerie and Kama Sutra Products to get your blood pumping. I think you will agree...all our relationships need a little boost during the dismal days (and in-between too).

Do a little R & R with a new meaning - Rest and Romance. Log on the net and shop with us at http://www.mysecretslingerie.com/ for some "hot" winter lingerie. Believe me...you and your lover will forget about the frigid weather surrounding you when you heat things up under the sheets with a variety of Sexy Lingerie and Love Potions to indulge in.

Get some friction going...give your mate a warm and gentle massage with Warming Message Oil. I promise... you will win some brownie points and believe me....we all needs brownie points stored up for rainy days. lol....

I just want you to know, I was thinking about my blog friends and I couldn't help but wonder... how's the weather in your part of the world. Keep warm and enjoy some winter romance while you can.

Drop me a comment, I would love to hear about your winter wonderland too. For all of you out there in the warm climates, send some of your nice weather our way in a few days. However, we have some Winter R & R to take advantage of first :).

Blog to you soon!
Sherri

Unique Merry Christmas Gift Idea for Your Lover

2006-11-28T07:28:00.000-05:00

First things first.....Merry Christmas to You! Once again, I can't believe Halloween has come and gone. Then, Thanksgiving flew by. I don't know where time is going this year. The older I get the faster it goes. Regardless, I love this time of year!

Here we are... Christmas quickly approaching. Have you started your shopping or are you almost done? I am one of those early shoppers. I beat the crowds and get my shopping done early. Now, if I can get everything wrapped before the last minute, I will be doing good. However, it never works that way. Wrapping is quite a task for me and I am always down to the last minute stuffing presents in bags.

I get all sentimental at Christmas but most of all....I am thankful for all I have been blessed with and I always remember the original meaning of Christmas first and foremost. Isn't giving a great feeling. To me, giving is much better than receiving but to be unique is my ultimate goal.

Christmas it is a time of love and closeness and especially with your mate. However, through all the shopping, our honey's....often get much less of our time than normal. Therefore, to make up for your shortage of time, give your lover a unique gift he or she will always remember. "Time" is the greatest gift you can give your lover.

Create a Romantic Merry Christmas Gift Voucher on your computer to give to your lover this year. Place the voucher in a nice envelop and add a big pretty bow. What a great gift for the two of you to enjoy together.

Be creative... put 3 to 5 actions on the voucher you entitle your love to redeem. For example, tell them the voucher entitles them to an evening of:

1 - 30 Minute Massage with Warming Oil
1- Session of Oral Lovemaking with Tasty & Edible Lubes
1- Loving Making Encounter Learning a New Sexual Position
1 - Chocolate Body Painting Session to Indulge In
1- Sexy Lingerie Strip Tease Show

Even add a specific date if you want. This year if you really want to surprise your lover, add this new voucher variety into your relationship. They will love this gift!

Check out my Sexy Christmas Lingerie selection at www.mysecretslingerie.com and get the voucher going. If you want some real privacy, shop online for intimate apparel and striptease like never before.

Don't be shy with the one you love. Spice up your relationship this Christmas. Strengthen and Heighten your intimate relationship with something new. Ring in the new year with a renewed bond between the two of you and keep the love flaming.

Remember....implement Merry Christmas "Time" with your Lover this year. What a unique gift. An Intimate and Exciting Merry Christmas Voucher Gift will certainly change up your routine and refresh both of you from all the hectic holiday shopping.

Let me know some of your great voucher ideas. I would love to hear your ideas.

Again, Have a Very Intimate Merry Christmas with the one you love and take a minute to visit us at www.mysecretslingerie.com we carry intimate and sexy lingerie. Not to mention, our exciting body products line to indulge in.

Merry Christmas,
Sherri

Last Minute Adult Halloween Costume Idea...

2006-10-22T13:51:00.000-04:00

I was setting here yesterday reminiscing about all the fun I have had at past Halloween parties and of course it was all about the costumes that first came to mind. I had some really good laughs because it was one costume in particular that really brought back a powerful memory and got me laughing. So, I couldn't resist sharing this one with you.... hope you don't mind sister. I told this one on you.

If you get invited to a party at the last minute, and you're at a lose for a quick costumes idea...here's one that you can throw together quickly and your cosutme will be the hit of the party.

Talk about unique....you will be the unique costume over all the rented or store bought ones and you will smile with pride because everyone will love it!!! You will quickly discover no one can resist you at the party.

You will be a lasting memory packed full of laughs in years to come...it will be you remembered. More importantly, you will have so much fun, the evening will grow with laughter as the night progresses. I've seen it first hand :).

Here it is....go as a "Rubber" Tree. I mean a true "Rubber" tree???. Run out to your nearest Walmart or Target and get your supplies. You will need an inexpensive set of long john underwear in green or brown for the tree body. You could even probably find cothing workable at a resale shop too. Just buy something to make your body a tree trunk color. (If you feel more comfortable, buy a pair of shorts to wear over the clothing that coordinates in color.)

Then....buy a couple sheets of green poster board paper to make leaves out of. Buy about a dozen cheap clear"Rubber" condoms, and a package of safety pin. Oh...you will need a brown marker too to outline your leaves. But let me tell you....the more condom leaves the more laughter.

(A cheap alternative to buying expensive condoms at Walmart or Target...go to a local convenience store or truck stop bathroom and buy every condom for a quarter they have in their little machine). Just another laugh to start the party before the party!

Go home and get to work. Draw leaves about 6" to 8" in size onto the poster paper. Out line the leaves and draw the veins too with your marker so they appear like real leaves. Then, cut them out. The number of rubber leaves is up to you.

When you are ready to dress for the party, tree up in your brown or green tree trunk clothing. Then, get the condom's and safety pins open and ready. You are about to become true "Rubber Tree".

Hold the condom in the middle of the leave and then pin (on the inside) the condom leaves all over you from the waist up. Then, watch as you turn into living, breathing "Rubber" tree.

If you really want to complete the costume, add a large leaf ornament into your hair. Cut out your leaf then pierce a small hole into the leaf and thread the condom through it. Then, slightly cut the top of the condom you threaded through the leave into two parts. Finally, tie the leaf into our hair. A great and final addition to your costume. You are now Rubber tree from head to toe.

Now, go have a Halllllllarious and Fun Party. Be on the look out for all the looks and laughter as your co-party goers see you enter the room with condoms dangling from you. You will have a great Rubber Tree time I promise.

I'd like to hear some of your great Halloween Costume stories, so drop me a note. A good laugh is always welcome.

Again, Happy Halloween to you. Have a safe one.

Sherri

Sexy Adult Costumes for a Night of Hot Thrilling Romance

2006-10-03T00:28:00.000-04:00

Hey Ghost and Goblin Friends,

Wow....can you believe it is October and Halloween is upon us again. It seems like we just had Halloween, but here we are again. Oh...but isn't it fun seeing all the Halloween Costumes and the imagination people put into the event.

Watching all the varieties of costumes is thrilling, chilling, and even comical. Halloween is one holiday everyone looks forward to because it is an entire evening of make believe, fun, and treats.

We get to dress up in Halloween Costumes of our choice and be any character we desire. Isn't dressing a different part and playing a different role exciting? Halloween Costumes are down right fun, and not to mention, memorable.

So I say....why end the evening with a Halloween Costume tossed on the floor when the treating can turn into a night of Hot and Spooky Romance with your Lover. There certainly is no Tricking to a Sexy Adult Costume. Its all about treats now.

Talk about Fantasies coming to life.... Men, I think you will agree, nothing like being cuffed by a Sexy Policewoman. Chances are....the arms are out before the cuffs have been drawn. Now...That's the kind of arrest my husband would certainly agree upon. Ladies, how about yours?

This year you need to get over the FRIGHTTTTTT of wearing Sexy Adult Costumes and just do it. Be adventurous for a change. Ladies, be the Sexy Policewomen for this night and experience what happens. I will do it if you will :). Treats all the way, and I am all about that.

Halloween is the perfect opportunity to add a sexy treat into your bedroom. Take advantage of the event and get those goose bump going. It is time to change up the same ole', same ole' routine you are in and be someone different for a night.

Talk about a Night of Hot Spoooooky Romance waiting to happen. It doesn't make sense to miss the pleasure and experience of an entirely different dimension in your relationship. And...what a reflection in years to come. Remember, it is your own Lingerie Secrets.

I will tell you, if my husband shows up on Halloween in a Matthew McConnuhey look alike costume, my man is going to experience a night like he has never known. The walls will come down! So, will the ceiling fan, and the lights, and the..........

So, how about you and your relationship....aren't you ready for a change of pace in your romance. Ladies, get busy and really treat your man on Halloween. Sexy Adult Costumes are a special treat and more candy to your relationship than you could ever gather in a bag.

Don't miss the opportunity....
Sexy Adult Costumes for a Night of Hot Spooooooky Romance......

Happy Halloween, and Lingerie of Fun...
Sherri

Surviving the Sexless Marriage Dilemma

2006-09-29T21:35:00.000-04:00

Welcome to My Secrets Lingerie Blog, and thank you for coming here. My name is Sherri and I want to share with you the problems of a sexless marriage I have encountered. I wondered....How did we get to this boring sexless marriage?

After the I do's...slowly we got to a Sexless Marriage "Before we Realized It" and our marriages became in a rut. The everyday responsibilities of work and family took over our passions and desires. Then, we grew too tired for sex or the efforts to do anything about it. Day by day, week by week, year by year romance left my marriage.

Responsibilities such as making a living, having kids, running to ballgames always was the priority over keeping a romantic relationship in our marriages. I know in my dating relationship with my husband, it didn't start out that way, or we would have never needed up in the relationship in the first place much less married.

We started out with Attraction, Excitement, Passion, Desire, Communication for each other; therefore we had sex. Sex was our expression of love to each other. It was our embracing of each other and closeness. It was our secret line of communication and spontaneity that only the two of us shared.

It was pleasing, desirable, exciting, fun, risque', spontaneous and satisfying. Then, it slowly deteriorate. Unfortunately, a sexless marriage can lead to silence, unhappiness, depression, not feeling attractive, infidelity, boredom, sexual frustration, divorce and the list goes on and on. My marriage was suffering from several of these problems and I knew it. Therefore, I had to do something about it and stop the Sexless Marriage dilemma.

I admit, I became one of those I'm too tired wives. Thank goodness, I finally realized it. I was suffering with depression. I wasn't diagnosed with depression, but I knew I was suffering with it. I was not excited and or interested in sex. As a result, I began to feel unattractive and dressed the part in the bedroom. Tee Shirts was my summer lingerie and flannel pajamas was my winter lingerie.

I no longer owned any lingerie because it went out the window just like my sex drive did. I suffered and my husband suffered. After my husband suffered years of sexual frustration because I avoided, eventually sex became less important to him too. Then that lead to my insecurities, I thought, I was not attractive to him any longer. However, that wasn't really the case.

My husband was forced to accept my lack of sexual desire. Our happiness suffered. It was time to turn this romance in my marriage around, so piece by piece I started working to improve my sexless, boring and unhappy marriage. Let me tell you, if you ever want to overcome the Sexless Marriage Syndrome, you have to rethink what you want in your entire marriage, relationship and with your spouse. Number one...do you want this marriage and number two do you have the WANT TO get back to Romance in Your Marriage.

You have to reminisce about the attractiveness and passion from long ago and the person you fell in love with and married. I went to work on improving my desires, and my first thoughts were...Lingerie, Sexy lingerie would be a good starting point. It cost less than marriage counseling and it would make me feel better, would change the boring routine, and would enhance the mood.

Then, when I tried to go into public to shop for sexy lingerie, I ran into a terrible dilemma. I was too embarrassed to shop in public for sexy lingerie regardless how nice the department store or boutique was. All I could think was...what if someone I know is behind me in the checkout counter?

What if one of my teenage/grown kids sees me? Unfortunately, I would go home empty handed and my lingerie wardrobe was still tee's and flannel. Senario... my marriage continued to be sexless. Finally, I had it. I wanted a romantic marriage. I wanted my husband to be happy, and I wanted to be happy.

So, I went to work on the problem and opened up my own online lingerie store 2.5 yrs. ago. I knew if I felt insecure about shopping in public for lingerie I was not alone. I knew other women felt the same way I did, so I fixed that problem for all of us.

Being in a sexless marriage is painful and destructive. More importantly, it is exhausting, depressing, and unfulfilling for both spouse. Step-by-step my husband and I successfully restored sexual intimacy in our marriage. We discovered the underlying problem of our sexless dilemma and so can you regardless the crisis. Then, we applied new techniques within our marriage to completely regain love and rekindle sexual intimacy. Wow...it is possible and I want to share the secrets with you!!! If you want to turn your sexless marriage around....check out my new ebook at www.marriage-sexless.com

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Investing in an Intimate Lingerie Wardrobe to Spice Up Your Relationship

2006-09-29T18:21:00.000-04:00

I bet you never thought of your lingerie as an investment. Often times, intimate lingerie is purchased strictly to wear for a special occasion or a special encounter and then it is never worn again.

Equally important, after the special occasion, the lingerie is not properly cared for. Your Lingerie is tossed to the side, or shoved in the drawer and never worn again. Then, one day while your going through your drawer, you pull out this wrinkled, less than attractive, piece of something that now has no meaning or significance then you discard it.

Lingerie is defined in Webster's Dictionary as 1. linen article or garment and 2. women's intimate apparel. When I think of linen, I envision fine, nice, and elegant. When I think of Intimate Lingerie, what comes to mind is elegant, sheer, sexy, delicate, and lace. The two definitions have a ring of "special" to them. Lingerie is certainly specialty pieces of clothing because it is very personal and intimate.

Therefore, when you purchase lingerie, treat it as an investment because it is special. Follow the washing instruction and treat your lingerie pieces with care. Hang your lingerie on nice hangers so the elegant pieces are properly stored and can be enjoyed again. Even go as far as covering the pieces in clear plastic clothing covers. As a result, the beauty and life of the lingerie will well exceed the money you spent on it.

Investing in an Intimate Lingerie Wardrobe is a pleasant enhancement to your relationship. Why...because you can create different styles of lovemaking encounters by the type of lingerie you wear.

For example, if you wear leather lingerie, you set the mood for a hot, heavy, I can't resist you any longer lovemaking encounter. However, if you wear a dainty soft elegant lace lingerie, you create a lovemaking encounter of slow intimate passion. Intimate Lingerie certainly Spices Up a Marriage or Relationship.

Therefore, investing in an Intimate Lingerie Wardrobe is an important compliment to your relationship. Not to mention, lingerie is an exciting change for your self-esteem. Get out of those frumpy pjs. Allow yourself the opportunity to feel alive and sexy.

You will be amazed what change from frumpy to sexy can do for you and your relationship....:) Equally important, lingerie is a pleasing gift to your mate. After lingering up, wow...unbelievable anticipation for what is inside the package.

Build a lingerie wardrobe piece by piece. You know... we build a clothing wardrobe to look pleasing to the outside world. But....what are we thinking....it is just as important to build a wardrobe for the bedroom.

Start caring for your lingerie properly so it will last and your lingerie wardrobe will grow. Therefore, you will have a selection of intimate lingerie to wear to fit the mood.

Then, whatever type of lovemaking mood you are in or you want to set, you can carry it out from the style of lingerie you wear. Changing up your package is very important. More importantly, change defeats the redundant predictable encounters in the bedroom that creates breakdown in intimacy between couples.

In additon, change is very important to keep the fire burning in the bedroom. We certainly do not like to eat the same foods over and over again because we grow tired to it. Therefore, it makes sense doing the same thing over and over in the bedroom kills desire for each other just the same.

Even when you just want a romantic evening cuddling and watching a movie without sexual activity, wear a satin pj set, a charmeuse teddy set, or rose lace chemise. These intimate lingerie pieces will heighten the cuddling pleasures of the evening and certainly make the time more romantic. In addition, you will feel good. Then, rest will come pleasantly afterwards.

Invest, surprise, and feel sexy....you won't believe the positive, quick and easy way to start spicing up your relationship today! Visit my online store for some great ideas..... http://www.mysecretslingerieandbodyproducts.com

Much Spice to You....
Sherri